The Best Wedding Venues in Durham, CT

The Best Wedding Venues in Durham, CT

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8 Wedding Venues in Durham, CT

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The Lake House 

5.0

Wolcott, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Lake House catering facility is located within steps of its own private lake. Situated on over 19 acres, privacy and sophistication adorn you from the moment you arrive. Designed and built to capture unsurpassed lake views from every seat, The Lake House delivers the finest service and cutting-edge cuisine to satisfy the most discerning of palates.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides event staff
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
I can’t even put into words how special my wedding was thanks to The Lake House (but I’m going to try lol). I found this location on Zola and when I contacted the owner, Paul, it was like speaking to an old friend even though we had never met before. He is so sincere and thoughtful and has the best tips and tricks for wedding planning. I never hired a wedding planner and I was a little overwhelmed in the beginning of my planning process but Paul was there every step of the way for me. He answered all my emails filled with dumb questions and he advised me in the best way. Carole, my wedding coordinator at the venue, was an absolute gem as well and made things so easy. My wedding was 11/16/24 (the last wedding of their season!) and I still have guests telling me how fantastic everything was. Especially the FOOD. I truly dream about the filet mignon and tiramisu we had about twice a week lol. I can’t say enough amazing things about this venue. I would have my next birthday party here just so I can see Paul and Carole again and eat more of the delicious food lol. The location is GORGEOUS and they truly made my wedding the best night of my entire life.
Nicole M., 6 months ago
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Century Ballroom at the Bristol Event Center 

5.0

Bristol, CT
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Century Ballroom at the Bristol Event Center is a dream come true for couples who love to dance. This spacious venue boasts advanced lighting and sound systems, creating the perfect ambiance for a lively and unforgettable celebration. The elegant design and ample space allow for a variety of wedding styles, from classic to contemporary. With top-notch service and a dedicated staff, the Century Ballroom ensures that every wedding is a unique and joyous occasion, filled with lasting memories.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a chic vibe
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
The Bristol Event Center made all our NYE wedding dreams come true! The venue is absolutely gorgeous, from the floor to ceiling windows, tall ceilings, huge bars, and high-end finishes. Everything was sparkling and new. Having two spacious hospitality suites upstairs to get ready in (or to touch-up during the reception) was a huge bonus. The staff at the BEC was amazing, from our initial tour to the day of. They are experts in the hospitality industry. They got back to us quickly with any question and were extremely accommodating with all our requests. Even our vendors commented how great they were to work with! Food was very important to us and the BEC nailed it! It was difficult to narrow down our hors d'oeuvres choices because everything was so amazing at the tasting. The chef was extremely accommodating to all our requests, including a huge raw bar during cocktail hour which was the talk of the wedding. Lastly, I can’t emphasize how convenient it was for our guests to stay in the hotel next door. Our guests stayed at the DoubleTree which was a 2 minute walk, or they could take one of the shuttles that staff were running back and forth. We also had our afterparty in one of the hotel ballrooms. Staff from both the BEC and Doubletree worked together to make this seamless. It will be even more convenient now that the connected Home2Suites is open for guests! Overall, our experience with the Bristol Event Center was a 1000/10. If you’re looking for a brand-new, sparkling venue with amazing service, food, and convenience, this is your place.
Elizabeth, 10 months ago
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Wright's Mill Farm 

5.0

Canterbury, CT
  • Up to 210 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $89

With our charming storybook country setting, Wright’s Mill Farm is truly a special place. Romantic waterfalls, winding country roads, scenic ponds and historic buildings bring back the rustic charm of a bygone era. From the moment you arrive you’ll feel how private and intimate your day will be. Whatever the season, the facilities at Wright’s Mill Farm will be beautiful for your wedding. Wrights Mill Farm offers a number of packages to fit your specific needs. To view a list of packages so that you can choose the one that fits your

We cannot say enough wonderful things about Wright’s Mill Farm! From start to finish, our wedding day was absolutely perfect, thanks to their incredible team. With March weather being so unpredictable, we opted for the patio ceremony, and it turned out great. The backdrop was absolutely gorgeous, and the ceremony was even more beautiful than we could have imagined! The photos we got were stunning. I can’t imagine how beautiful it would be when the trees are full! Brie, our day-of coordinator, was phenomenal. She was on top of every detail, quick to respond to any issues, and made sure everything went off without a hitch. We never had to worry about a thing because she had it all handled seamlessly. She has impeccable taste, and we loved that she was comfortable voicing her opinion on small details we couldn’t decide on. Curt and the entire catering team did an amazing job—our guests are still raving about the food! From cocktail hour to the late-night snacks, everything was delicious, and they even accommodated last-minute dietary needs without hesitation. If I had to pick one item that I would eat every day for the rest of my life, it would be the mini monte cristos from cocktail hour!!! The staff went above and beyond to make sure we were taken care of. We were never without a drink in hand, and the bar service was so efficient that there was never a line. A special shoutout to Cheryl and Chrissy, who were always right there whenever we needed anything. They even checked in with other guests to make sure everyone had what they needed for a fun night! Their attentiveness made such a difference in our day. If anything went wrong, we certainly never noticed! The entire experience was smooth, stress-free, and absolutely unforgettable. We are so grateful to Wright’s Mill Farm for making our wedding day everything we dreamed of and more!
Kayla W., 2 months ago
Kirby Hill Farm 

5.0

Pawling, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

“The Quintessential Hudson Valley Farm Wedding Venue” Nestled in Quaker Hill, a small hamlet northeast of Pawling, NY, Kirby Hill Farm offers a rustic-styled wedding backdrop on a sprawling countryside. Kirby Hill farm is a unique and beautiful equestrian farm just an hour north of New York City. It offers horse enthusiasts the finest boarding, training & recreational options for nearly every discipline and skill level. The estate is complete with indoor riding arenas, horse barns, paddocks, riding trails, an outdoor event field with observation pavilion and clubhouse. With over 250 majestic acres, you will find yourself surrounded by beautiful outdoor landscapes, a few breathtaking ceremony sites to choose from, and newly renovated barn overlooking our pristine grounds. From intimate celebrations to large formal occasions, Kirby Hill Farm couples farm elegance and modern celebration in a country setting with many picture-perfect spots to capture your special moments.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • No on-site bridal suite
Kirby Hill Farm is a magical experience. By far my most favorite venue to flower and the most gracious hosts to work with. There is a beauty and authenticity about the farm. Surrounded by rolling hills and wide skies this gem has many perfect backdrops for gorgeous photo ops (think majestic horses grazing in the background and beautifully landscaped grounds to meander). The thoughtfully appointed farmhouse is the right size to accommodate most bridal parties and is also a stellar option for hosting intimate rehearsal dinners in front of the fireplace. The club house is loaded with character: warm wood, stone, and the original barn doors. The barn stands in contrast, industrial in feel with soaring ceilings and oversized glass doors that open up to cocktails on the pavilion overlooking the polo field below. I found tons of inspiration for my design vision right at the farm and the team there was flawless in facilitating my execution. If you love BBQ or beautifully prepared delectable food experiences you should definitely check out the farms exclusive caterer Odeens when you visit the site. Overall just sublime!
Studio Nectar, 3 years ago
East End Venue 
Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Nestled in Long Island’s beautiful east end, The East End Venue at the Residence Inn Long Island East End is the perfect place to celebrate with friends and family. From corporate events, fundraisers, communions, anniversaries, and weddings, experienced staff and newly built facilities are ready to welcome you, and those you love, to an event you’ll always remember. Our team is experienced in every aspect to coordinate and execute seamless events.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a sophisticated vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Canoe Place Inn & Cottages 
Hampton Bays, NY
  • Up to 325 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Congratulations! We would be honored to host your special day and look forward to discussing your vision. Our dedicated team is here to assist you in planning everything from a stunning outdoor ceremony in our lush garden to a beautiful reception in our iconic ballroom. We’ll help with every detail, including your rehearsal dinner, first look, wedding after-party, and farewell brunch, crafting a personalized experience just for you from start to finish. Let’s make your dream day unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Provides event staff
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
Montauk Yacht Club 
Montauk, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $38,500

Located on a private lakefront in the hamlet of Montauk, Montauk Yacht Club offers a timeless backdrop for your wedding and related events. Our indoor and outdoor venues are ideal for celebrations both big and small, from casual to black-tie. In addition to rooms, suites, and cottages, Montauk Yacht Club offers a luxurious bridal suite, perfect for getting ready for all the festivities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides event staff
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists

Location flexible? Discover venues near Durham, CT

About wedding venues in Durham, CT

Connecticut creates a magical backdrop for weddings with its diverse landscape ranging from historic mansions to renovated barns, waterfront properties and lush gardens. You'll find venues that perfectly blend traditional New England charm with modern amenities while showcasing the state's distinct seasonal beauty - exactly what you need to create those perfect wedding memories.

What Makes Connecticut Wedding Venues Distinctive?

Architectural diversity really sets Connecticut wedding venues apart. Eolia Mansion features an incredible amphitheater ceremony space and lovingly preserved period details that transport you back in time. The Barns at Wesleyan Hills stands out with its Edison Light Wall that creates absolutely magical evening ambiance you and your guests will remember forever. Fall weddings between September and October deliver spectacular foliage colors for ceremonies while July offers perfect conditions for waterfront celebrations along the Connecticut shoreline with comfortable temperatures and stunning water views.

How Much Do Connecticut Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding venue costs in Connecticut typically range from $8,300 to $10,200 and represent about 17% of your total wedding budget. This aligns nicely with the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total wedding costs, so you're getting good value in Connecticut.

For different guest counts, your approximate total wedding budgets will look like:

  • 50 guests: $24,172
  • 100 guests: $39,982
  • 150 guests: $54,842
  • 200 guests: $68,120
  • 250 guests: $81,398
  • 300 guests: $94,676

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in Connecticut?

The Riverview in Weatogue accommodates up to 500 seated guests with complete accessibility features and packages starting at $10,000. You'll find The Waterview in Monroe offers beautiful lakeside event spaces for up to 300 guests with handicap-accessible indoor and outdoor areas that make movement easy for all your guests.

Eolia Mansion at Harkness Memorial State Park gives you accessible ceremony locations for up to 150 guests with pricing starting at $5,000, while The Glastonbury Boathouse welcomes 150 guests with wheelchair accessibility throughout its indoor and outdoor spaces so everyone can enjoy your special day without limitations.

Which Connecticut Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

The Omni New Haven Hotel at Yale showcases local ingredients through their upscale in-house catering that will impress even your foodie guests. Delamar West Hartford features the award-winning Artisan Restaurant offering refined cuisine in an upscale setting that perfectly complements your celebration.

The Pond House Cafe in West Hartford has earned serious praise for unique food options and stunning presentation that elevates your reception experience. Winvian in Morris delivers true 5-star farm-to-table dining with ingredients harvested from their on-site gardens; you'll taste the difference in every bite and your guests will be talking about the meal for years.

How Can Connecticut Venues Accommodate Remote Wedding Guests?

The Waterview offers cutting-edge virtual reality applications allowing your remote guests to explore venue grounds and interact with on-site attendees almost like they're physically there. Anthony's Ocean View provides dedicated event concierges who help integrate technology for seamless remote participation so no one feels left out.

Innovative venues now incorporate interactive video conferencing virtual reality experiences and personalized virtual engagement platforms that go far beyond simple streaming. These technologies create truly inclusive experiences for remote guests who can't make it in person but still want to share in your special day.

When Should You Book Your Connecticut Wedding Venue?

Connecticut venues typically need booking 16 months in advance with September generating the highest volume of venue inquiries. The peak wedding season spans September-October when fall foliage creates stunning natural decor driving serious competition for prime weekend dates at barn and outdoor venues. You'll want to secure your date early especially if you're dreaming of that perfect autumn wedding.

What Wedding Costs Should You Expect in Connecticut?

Key wedding expenses for a 150-guest wedding include:

  • Venue: $9,243 (17%)
  • Catering: $7,395 (13%)
  • Florists: $6,399 (12%)
  • Bar Services: $5,916 (11%)
  • Planners: $5,119 (9%)
  • Photographers: $4,977 (9%)

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