Hotel Lilien


Select services venue

The venue will provide the space, plus a few extras.

Full wedding (ceremony and reception) pricing

Starting at $50,000 for off-peak dates, and $80,000 for peak dates

Guest capacity

Up to 140 seated guests



About this venue

Celebrate your love story at Hotel Lilien, a cozy boutique hotel and cocktail bar nestled in the Catskill Mountains. This artfully restored estate offers an intimate setting for your upstate New York wedding. Take over our 18 guest rooms and sprawling grounds for an exclusive wedding weekend experience. From a welcome reception by the wood-burning stove to a romantic ceremony and lively after-party, our estate becomes your private home base for every memorable moment of your celebration in the Hudson Valley.


Our event spaces

Private Dining Room at Hotel Lilien

An intimate dining space

Adjacent to the main dining room, a vintage handmade farm table sets the scene for small gatherings by day and intimate dining by night.

Guest capacity

Up to 16 Seated

Up to 16 Standing

Ideal for

Rehearsal dinner, Other

Guests often feel this space is

“Warm and cozy”

Included in this room:

-Seating for up to 16 -Wine fridge and wet bar -Direct outdoor deck access -Smart TV

Bar and Lounge at Hotel Lilien

A design-forward backdrop for a memorable celebration

Our eclectic lounge features a billiards table iconic stained glass windows and doors that open to the side deck. The multipurpose room can be rearranged to accommodate a dance floor or banquet seating.

Guest capacity

Up to 40 Seated

Up to 129 Standing

Ideal for

Wedding ceremony, Elopement, Wedding reception, Rehearsal dinner, Wedding shower, Engagement party, Welcome party, After party, Farewell brunch, Cocktail hour

Guests often feel this space is

“Warm and cozy”

Included in this room:

All tables, chairs, and lounge seating will be provided. Ceremony chairs are also available.

Side Lawn at Hotel Lilien

The ideal outdoor ceremony or reception site

A flat field surrounded by woods sets the scene for a romantic ceremony or tented event under the stars.

Guest capacity

Up to 140 Seated

Up to 140 Standing

Ideal for

Wedding reception

Bluestone Patio at Hotel Lilien

A poolside patio that's perfect for entertaining

Our spacious bluestone pool deck is the perfect place for guests to relax on plush lounge chairs. Drinks and light bites can be served at our poolside gazebo bar.

Guest capacity

Up to 50 Seated

Up to 50 Standing

Guests often feel this space is

“Relaxed”

The Lodge at Hotel Lilien

A bright, airy, and elevated celebration spot

This spacious, newly restored mountain chalet features a main event space with two-story windows that overlook Plateau Mountain, a large deck with sweeping views, a private dining room, a traditional bar, an intimate mezzanine, and a 4-bedroom suite with upper deck. Available starting fall 2025.

Guest capacity

Up to 140 Seated

Up to 140 Standing

Ideal for

Wedding ceremony, Elopement, Wedding reception, Rehearsal dinner, Engagement party, Welcome party, After party, Farewell brunch, Couples luncheon, Baraat, Cocktail hour

Guests often feel this space is

“Warm and cozy”

Private Dining Room at Hotel Lilien

An intimate dining space

Adjacent to the main dining room, a vintage handmade farm table sets the scene for small gatherings by day and intimate dining by night.

Guest capacity

Up to 16 Seated

Up to 16 Standing

Ideal for

Rehearsal dinner, Other

Guests often feel this space is

“Warm and cozy”

Included in this room:

-Seating for up to 16 -Wine fridge and wet bar -Direct outdoor deck access -Smart TV


Available services that can be provided by Hotel Lilien

Services & amenities

  • Bar services
  • Clean up
  • Dressing room / Bridal Suite
  • Event coordinator
  • Event staff
  • Liability insurance
  • Lighting/Sound
  • On-site accommodations
  • Pet friendly
  • Service staff
  • Set up
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Wifi

Reviews

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  • Weekend Wedding

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    MeghanOct 13

    My husband and I got married at Hotel Lilien last September and the entire weekend exceeded our wildest expectations. Coordinating with Daniel and Jules was excellent throughout the entire process and they responded timely with answers, solutions, and suggestions. The staff was very flexible and was able to adapt to decisions that were made the week before based on weather. Throughout our entire stay they were extremely attentive and helpful with all requests, specifically Chris, Jason, Anthony, and Kiera. They really made our weekend perfect. Each room was pristine when we arrived and every single attendee mentioned how much they loved the accommodations. The food was also amazing, people couldn’t stop talking about the grilled cheese, tomato soup, and charcuterie/burrata boards. Looking back on our wedding as a whole, choosing Hotel Lilien was the perfect decision and we are so grateful for their entire staff making the whole experience so magical. The hotel has so much history and the original owner’s daughter, Meta Lilienthal, has a personal memoir called Dear Remembered World and the book describes her life in both Manhattan and Upstate back in the 1890s. While the property is now a hotel, the new owners have managed to expertly craft an environment that makes you feel right at home. Couldn’t recommend more!

  • A true gem

    Verified review
    AnnieMay 5, 2025

    We had a deliriously happy, memorable wedding weekend at Hotel Lilien. Our entire bridal party and family stayed here, and the hotel hosted a fantastic BBQ for our Friday night welcome event. It was a pleasure working with the owners, through many months of planning right up to the big day. I can't overstate how accommodating and detail-oriented their team is -- and on top of that, they are friendly and fun, and know how to throw a great party. The hotel itself is picturesque and well appointed. I loved that we each had our own cozy room, but in the mornings and evenings, everyone came downstairs to hang out in the lounge space, which feels like an inviting living room. Their team set the tone for a great day every single day. They were always ready to help with things like distributing welcome bags, offering local recommendations and of course pouring superior cocktails. Working with Hotel Lilien was a dream the whole way. Attached photos: Eileen Meny eileenmenyphotography.com