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Every wedding guest list is unique, but we're willing to bet that the list for your special day features guests with a range of budgets. Some guests can afford to splurge on lavish gifts for the newlyweds, while others may be a bit more conservative in choosing the best wedding gift within their budget for the happy couple. Keep this in mind when it comes to adding items to your __[wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)__. 

When creating a registry for your wedding day—and your life as a married couple—we always recommend adding smaller- and larger-ticket items so there's something for all budgets. There's no need to skip expensive gifts, though. Just make it a group gift! From gift ideas for your new home to unique wedding gift experiences for your [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101) and beyond, here's how it works—and why you should do it.

## What Is Group Gifting?
Group gifting is a win-win situation for the couple and the guest. It allows the couple to choose whatever great wedding gifts they want, in whatever price range they want. At the same time, the guests stay in their budget, contributing what they wish to an extra special wedding present. We handle all the logistics for your guests so there’s no unnecessary back and forth…and ensure you receive the most perfect wedding gifts.

## Why Should I Use Group Gifting?
Well, like we said, it makes your registry experience completely accessible to all budget levels. Plus, it's a Zola secret that making an expensive item a group gift actually increases your chances of receiving that gift. Guests are less likely to simply skip over it if they can't afford the entire thing.

## What Counts As A Group Gift?
Anything you want! Really, anything. At Zola we offer an extremely wide range of registry items—from expensive barware to whole furniture pieces to keepsakes and experiences you'll remember forever. Usually group gifts are on the more expensive end but, with your Zola registry, you can make anything a group gift.

## Do Guests Have To Go In On A Group Gift Together?
Nope! You can get that swanky bar cart from your coworker, great aunt, and friend from high school without any stress or coordination on their part (or yours, of course). We'll keep track of who contributed to what, though, so you can be sure to thank everyone when it's time.

## How Do I Do It?
When you register at Zola, you can turn on the group gifting feature for any item on your registry. This includes big-ticket items for the home, newlywed cash funds, and even charity funds. Just select group gifting as you're adding the item to let your friends and family know the deal.

## 26 Best Group Wedding Gift Ideas for Your Registry!
Now that you've decided to use our group gifting feature, we figured we'd offer some recommendations and [wedding gift ideas for your registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-ideas). How you choose to employ group gifting is entirely up to you! Go big or go home on big-ticket items or set up a __[fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)__ for the charity of your choice or your __[honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)__. Here are a few fun physical items that work well as group gifts.

### 1. Quality Cookware
![lecreuset braiser flame A 750](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AMZs0ayYapg5aX2knILRW/0cf074133fbe197a818ecf0f946e856c/lecreuset_braiser_flame_A_750.jpg)
*Le Creuset – $285*

Group Gifting really comes in handy when you want to add high-quality brands to your wedding registry like [Le Creuset](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lecreuset_braiser_flame). This brand is known for durability and timelessness, making it a guest favorite wedding gift–the only catch is the high price tag. Turn on group gifting and voila! The only kitchenware you’ll ever need is yours—with the help of a few guests. To shop all Le Creuset, click [here](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/le-creuset).

### 2. Cozy New Couch
![59dba909c268e9639fa01cc4 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6acF81K0YKlKiE4Q9Ctgm/280e313c1d1d85f3138bb44eed53c573/59dba909c268e9639fa01cc4_A_1600.jpeg)
*Baxton Studio - $1099.99*

Fill your new space (or upgrade your current one) with comfy furniture fit for the happy couple. Your guests will be happy to contribute to your home—especially if you invite them over to enjoy it, too. We love this [mid-century sectional](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/baxton_midcentury_sectional_sofa_grey) in a neutral hue.

### 3. Couples Massage
![zeel couples massage nyc A 750](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/sFA4la2wmRFPP4Lois4Yp/1af941046b93827410d3db42573f98c0/zeel_couples_massage_nyc_A_750.jpg)
*Zeel – $100-$318, depending on location*

Who could resist a [couples massage](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/zeel) leading up to your big day? Or perhaps save it for a time when all the wedding festivities have died down and you two are still looking to celebrate. Either way, turn on [group gifting](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and let your guests contribute to an afternoon of sheer bliss…which might just be the best wedding gift of all!

### 4. A Weekend Adventure
![5a43faf1c268e921c9efce18 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5cUanq0u3jvExwRyu3nqa2/8452eaa0bd6cc3f3a9f810797b64d79d/5a43faf1c268e921c9efce18_A_1600.jpeg)
*Cloud 9 Living - $250*

Sure, you're planning your honeymoon, but that won't be the last getaway you take as a couple. Get a jumpstart on weekend planning with a gift card (yes, you can register for gift cards!) to [Cloud 9 Living](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_250_experience_giftcard), an experience gift company. Use it towards a skydiving adventure, a luxury camping weekend, a sunset cruise for two, or any of the company's many other large and small adventures.

### 5. In-House Entertainment
![56e0722ee4b000338fbfa420 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3vAvgKr5fSlqoIKaiaHYhU/609feb3325c586d6d310770086efebaf/56e0722ee4b000338fbfa420_A_1600.jpeg)
*Sonos - $699*

We really mean it when we say you can [make anything a group gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts). Receive the [wedding gifts you really want](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-tips) with the group gifting feature that will make your guests as happy as you.

### 6. Wine Glasses
A wedding is all about upgrading what you already have—so if you've been sipping out of a mismatched set of wine glasses since you moved in together, go ahead and register for a full-scope set. Because, yes, there are differently shaped glasses for reds and whites—and a full set can be a great option for a group gift.

[Zwiesel Glas Sensa Mixed Red & White Wine Glasses](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/schott-zwiesel-vivid-senses-wine-glasses/), $120, Williams Sonoma

### 7. Bottle of Wine
Yes—you can register for a bottle of wine! Choose a splurge-worthy bottle of bubbly or a case of wine for a group gift. Better yet, you can even register for a wine club membership or subscription box for a gift that keeps on coming all year.

[Dinner Party Bundle](https://www.brightcellars.com/products/dinner-party-bundle), $151, Bright Cellars

### 8. Champagne Flutes
Nothing says "celebration" quite like Champagne! Toast to your life together as newlyweds and register for a pair of luxurious champagne flutes—perfect for a few friends to go in on.

[Waterford Love Forever Flute Pair](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/waterford-love-forever-flute-pair-7.1-oz), $210, Macy's

### 9. Premium Blender
If you're still using the same blender you had in your first post-college apartment, you're definitely due for an upgrade—and your registry is the perfect opportunity to add a professional-level blender to your kitchen. And because high-end blenders can have a high price tag, they make for great group gifts. 

[Vitamix Professional Series 750 Blender](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/vitamix-pro-750-blender), $629.96, Williams Sonoma

### 10. Cast-Iron Cookware
A cast-iron grill pan makes a great addition to any wedding registry. Choosing one from a premium brand, like Le Creuset, makes for a great group gifting option.

[Le Creuset Signature Cast Iron Grill Pan](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/le-creuset-signature-square-grill-pan), $225, Williams Sonoma

### 11. Coffee or Espresso Maker
Whether you're looking to replace your tired drop coffee maker or want to level up your at-home latte game, a nice coffee machine is one of our favorite registry gifts. Plus, it makes a great group gift—since, as a thank you, you can host all the gift-ers at your place for coffee. 

[Breville Barista Express Espresso Machine](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/breville-barista-espresso-machine/s267619), $749.95, Crate+Barrel

### 12. Date Night Experiences
If you're looking for wedding registry gift ideas that aren't physical objects, adding a few experiences or activities is a great idea. It could be a cooking class at a nearby culinary school, or a chef's table experience at a fine dining restaurant.

[San Francisco Wine Country Tour](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9living_2tixfor_winecountrytour_sanfran), $598, Virgin Experiences Gift at Zola

### 13. Cashmere Throw Blanket
Snuggle up in luxury and register for a cashmere blanket—whether you keep it on your sofa or on your bed, we have a feeling this will be one of your most-used wedding gifts. Since cashmere is a splurge, it makes a great group gift option.

[Sferra Dorsey Throw](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/sferra-cashmere-dorsey-throw?), $664, Bloomingdale's

### 14. Dutch Oven
From Sunday sauces to hearty soups, Dutch ovens are kitchen workhorses—and can be on the pricey side, making them a great group gift. Plus, they come in practically every color of the rainbow! A wedding registry is the perfect place to ask for one from a premium brand like Staub or Le Creuset. 

[Staub 7-Qt. Dutch Oven](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/staub-7-qt.-eucalyptus-round-dutch-oven/s178699), $299.95, Crate+Barrel

### 15. Home Gadgets
If you've had your eye on an electronic gadget for your home (for example, a wireless security camera), add it to your wedding registry! Since electronics are typically on the more expensive side, this is a great opportunity to utilize the group gifting feature. 

[Blink Outdoor Wireless Security Camera](https://www.bestbuy.com/site/blink-outdoor-3rd-gen-wireless-1080p-security-camera-with-up-to-two-year-battery-life-black/6427060.p?skuId=6427060&ref=212&loc=1), $99, Best Buy

### 16. Home Decor
Are you looking for an item of home decor to commemorate your wedding, or want to splurge on a one-of-a-kind accent piece? Or, maybe you just really want a custom painting of your fur baby. Whatever you choose, this is a gift that a group will love to give. 

[Brindley Illustration Custom Painting](https://www.etsy.com/listing/589299676/animals-in-clothes-pet-portraits-funny), $245, Etsy

### 17. Patio Furniture

Maybe you recently bought a home with your fiance—and whether you have a sprawling backyard or a petite patio, go ahead and register for some outdoor furniture. This is an ideal option for a group gift—as the group can come over and enjoy the patio furniture after they gift it (along with some backyard cocktails!).

[Outdoor Dining Set](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/outdoor-dining-set-abaco-dining-table-stackable-dining-chair-and-regatta-dining-bench/f1010700), $249+, Crate+Barrel

### 18. Pizza Oven
Speaking of backyards, if you and your fiance love pizza, why not add a Neapolitan-worthy outdoor oven to your registry? And if a group ends up gifting you the oven, make sure to invite them over for pizza night!

[Ooni Koda 16 Pizza Oven](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/ooni-koda-16-pizza-oven/), $479.96, Williams Sonoma

### 19. Bouquet Preservation
Preserving your wedding bouquet is more popular than ever—and adding this service to your registry is a wonderful gift idea to commemorate your big day. 

[White Poppy Presses Wedding Bouquet Preservation](https://www.etsy.com/listing/860293642/wedding-bouquet-preservation-wedding), $195+, Etsy

### 20. KitchenAid Stand Mixer
KitchenAid stand mixers are another longtime registry staple—but they’re also a more expensive item, making them an ideal choice for a group gift. Plus, with a rainbow of colors to choose from, you can register for one that reflects your kitchen style. 

[KitchenAid Artisan 5-Qt. Stand Mixer](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/kitchenaid-artisan-5-qt.-stand-mixer-ksm150ps?ID=77589), $449.95, Macy's

### 21. Robot Vacuum
Use group gifting on your wedding registry as an opportunity to upgrade your vacuum game! These expensive gadgets are perfect for multiple guests to contribute to.

[iRobot Roomba 13+ Evo Robot Vacuum](https://www.amazon.com/iRobot-Roomba-Vacuum-Automatic-Disposal/dp/B08C4LC7TG/ref=sr_1_12?c=ts&keywords=Robotic+Vacuums&qid=1685234569&s=vacuums&sr=1-12&ts_id=3743561), $499.99, Amazon

### 22. Luggage Set
Jet off to your honeymoon in style with a set of matching luggage—register for one set for you and your fiance to share, or pick out separate sets for each of you.

[Ambeur 3-Piece Luggage Set](https://www.calpaktravel.com/products/ambeur-3-piece-luggage-set/black), $715, Calpak

### 23. Fire Pit
If you love to entertain and have outdoor space, a fire pit makes a great wedding gift idea for your registry—and a great gift option for a group.

[Solo Stove Bonfire Smokeless Outdoor Fire Pit](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/solo-stove-bonfire-smokeless-outdoor-fire-pit-with-stand-2.0/s387672), $344.99, Crate+Barrel

### 24. Knife Block Set
Just like your tired-out cookware, we're guessing your cutlery needs an upgrade. Add a set of professional chef-worthy knives to your registry (which tend to be on the pricier side!) so a couple of guests can contribute. 

[Wusthof Classic Knife Block Set](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/wusthof-classic-9-piece-knife-block-set-acacia/?sku=7658717&cm_ven=PLA&cm_ite=7658717_14932288941&cm_cat=Google&cm_pla=Local&gclid=CjwKCAjw1MajBhAcEiwAagW9MRiJ6wAJBnmPhO1rmg_TT0rQG00bVT2VVxXLTmua_tjIxbUQ7ywvpRoCHRIQAvD_BwE), $665, Williams Sonoma

### 25. Cooler
For a gift you'll use again and again, a high-end cooler makes a great group gifting choice. 

[YETI Tundra Haul](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/yeti-tundra-haul/), $450, Williams Sonoma

### 26. Sheet Set
You might never have splurged on a set of sheets for yourself, but using group gifting makes it easy for a few friends or family members to contribute to a dreamy set on your registry. 

[Casper Super Soft Sheet Set](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/casper-super-soft-sheet-set-collection?ID=14282903&CategoryID=9915), $215, Macy's

## Zola, Your Best Wedding Registry Option
From zero-fee cash funds to group gifting, Zola is the best wedding registry option out there. Within the Zola registry, you'll find a wide variety of gift options, including gift cards and experiences.   Plus, it's  easy to add registries from external brands. So, if you create separate registries at retailers like [Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/), [Crate & Barrel](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/), [Etsy](https://www.etsy.com/), [Macy's](https://www.macys.com/), [Pottery Barn](https://www.potterybarn.com/), or [Williams Sonoma](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/), you can easily link them to your Zola registry. This way, everything is conveniently on your wedding website, making for a better guest experience. You and your guests will enjoy free shipping and returns, too—just in case something doesn't work out. And if there are some gifts left over after the big day, you can buy them for yourself and save 20% off with Zola's post-wedding discount (which applies for 6 full months after you say your “I do’s.”) 

When you use Zola for your wedding website, you'll be able to use it to manage RSVPs and give guests all of the information they need for your wedding day. Plus, you can order your wedding invitations directly from Zola, too—there are hundreds of stunning designs to fit every wedding theme. 

Wherever you are in your wedding planning process, get started with a [customizable Zola wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and [gift registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry).

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Group Gifting 101: 26 Group Wedding Gift Ideas + Tips

Whether you're a guest look for wedding gift inspiration or a bride looking for bridesmaid gift ideas, you're in the right place! Find the latest trends and timeless gift inspiration, plus get advice on questions like how much to spend on a wedding gift and if you should buy a gift for the wedding shower.

As the resource for all things [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), we get a lot of questions here at Zola from guests looking to pick out the perfect wedding present. The question we get most often is, “How much should I spend on a wedding gift?” 

The answer varies depending on a few factors, such as how well you know the couple and how many different wedding events you’re invited to. Some of you may even be wondering if you need to purchase a wedding gift at all. Read on for our complete guide on wedding gift etiquette.

## How much should you spend on a wedding gift? <a id="spend"> </a>

These days, where cost-per-plate (explained below) does not factor into your choice of a wedding gift, exactly how much you should spend on a [wedding gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-expensive-is-too-expensive-for-my-registry) depends on various factors. 

Here are some general guidelines to follow:

- The average wedding gift amount ranges from $100 to $200, depending on how close you are to the couple. But more importantly, choosing a wedding gift isn’t about the price tag—it’s about giving the couple a special acknowledgment, from you to them, of this happy moment that they will use throughout their new life together.
- Try to [find a gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/everything-wedding-guests-need-to-know-about-gift-giving-right-now) that has both special significance to you and fits within what you can comfortably spend.
- Most couples register for gifts at a range of prices, so while big-ticket items might be exciting, couples also want smaller gifts that hold just as much meaning, purpose, or joy in their daily lives.

If you’re still itching for dollar amount suggestions, follow these very loose guidelines for how much to spend on wedding gifts:

- If you’re a coworker, acquaintance, or distant relative: $75-$100
- If you’re a friend or relative: $100-$150
- If you’re a close friend, immediate family, or part of the wedding party: $150-$200+
- If you received a +1 on your invitation: 1.5-2x more on the gift

## What’s the “cover your plate” rule? <a id="coveryourplate"> </a>

Once upon a time, it was considered good etiquette to purchase a wedding gift with a price tag comparable to the cost per plate (i.e., your meal) at the reception. Although it’s outdated, this sneaky piece of advice still gets passed around by wedding attendees like wedding gospel.

Here’s why you should leave it behind:

- Following this guideline means having to ask around (or ask the couple directly) how much they’re spending per plate at their wedding, which is a pretty uncomfortable question to circulate.
- It implies that you, as a guest, must spend a certain amount on a wedding gift regardless of your budget (which isn’t true).
- Attending someone’s wedding isn’t a food-for-gift exchange. It’s about celebration and coming together.
- This practice indicates to the couple that you’re only interested how much to spend on a wedding gift while giving them a gift that matches their wedding catering budget.

![Wedding Card and Gift Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5glq0I26rQAjxyOfjH5813/8ce9ccd8d67313f238bd760ad3251819/Wedding_Card_and_Gift_Table.jpg) Photo by [Cameron & Madalyn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/cameron-madalyn)

## 10 popular questions wedding guests ask about gifts  <a id="cash"> </a>

### 1. Is it OK to give a cash wedding gift?

Cash gifts are not only totally acceptable, they’re becoming increasingly requested by modern couples who are getting married later in life and have already outfitted their homes. If the couple is using Zola, they may have even registered for [cash funds](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds) to help them save for the honeymoon, a new home, a puppy, or even a lifetime supply of avocados (yes, it happened). 

However, there are a few best practices you should follow when contributing to a cash fund and wondering how much money to give as cash wedding gifts:

- Make sure you contribute an appropriate wedding gift amount through the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) if their list provides that option.
- If you write a check, mail it before the wedding day. Giving cash or checks on the big day isn’t necessarily wrong, but it does risk being lost in the chaos of the day.
- If writing a check as a wedding gift, make sure to write it out to one person and use pre-married names. Couples don’t always share joint accounts or change their names after the nuptials, which can lead to the bank refusing to accept the funds.

### 2. Should I contribute to a honeymoon fund as a gift?

Those from former generations may consider a [honeymoon fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds) an oddity, but if the couple has one, by any means, utilize it. If you’re wondering, “What is a good wedding gift?” adding a massage, helping pay for a hotel, or contributing to the overall honeymoon fund can be a lifesaver.

### 3. Is it OK to give a group wedding gift?

Yes! If you want to give the couple a big ticket item you can’t afford on your own, it’s a great idea to go in on a [group gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/everything-you-need-to-know-about-group-gifting) with other guests. Zola’s group gifting feature can make this process extremely easy. 

Two pieces of advice here:

- Make sure that everyone contributes the same wedding gift amount they would have spent on smaller gifts purchased on their own. When wondering how much to spend on wedding gifts, don’t skimp as a group.
- If you are attending a wedding as a large family, it’s a good rule of thumb that all adults (or each household) give their own gift.

![Outdoor Wedding Gift Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2iXLj665Jm4EC0B7CWzKll/1657930ea25025e4f6f905e8b8f7ea15/Outdoor_Wedding_Gift_Table.jpg) Photo by [Carson Lillard Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/carson-lillard-photography)

### 4. Can I buy wedding gifts that aren’t on the wedding registry?

As wedding gift etiquette, it’s always best to purchase a gift on the couple’s wedding registry. That way, you can ensure they like (and need) the item. 

If all of their registry items have been purchased by the time you get around to buying a gift, you have a few options:

1. Ask the couple if there’s anything else their hearts desire.
2. Contribute to a cash fund (or give them cash or a check directly).
3. Opt for an off-registry gift you’re 100% confident they’ll love. If you go with this option, make sure to get a gift receipt so that the couple can easily return duplicate or damaged items without hassle.

### 5. Do I need to buy a gift if I can’t attend the wedding?

In short, yes. But there is some flexibility here depending on how well you know the couple and your personal financial situation. If you’re close friends, it’s best to send a gift and a personalized note with warm wishes. Your mom’s boss’s daughter that you’ve never met? While it’s always polite to send a gift if you can, in impersonal circumstances, you’re less on the hook.

### 6. Should I buy a gift for a destination wedding?

Yes again. However, the travel and lodging costs that come with a destination wedding can put a big strain on your budget. It’s likely that the happy couple views your presence as a gift in itself, but if you want to get technical about it, purchasing a wedding gift is proper, even in the case of a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist). 

If you’re shelling out quite a bit to attend the wedding, then feel free to spend less than you typically would for a local celebration. With a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cut-destination-wedding-costs), there is a little leeway with how much cash to give for a wedding present.

### 7. What is gifting wedding etiquette for a plus-one?

First of all, be sure that [your plus-one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-my-plus-one-sign-the-wedding-card) is cleared with the couple, either via the address on the invitation or by chatting with the couple beforehand. A surprise guest can really be a burden if they aren’t accounted for in the catering, seating arrangement, and other plans. That being said, when giving a gift, it’s best to double the amount you’d normally spend on the gift, therefore accounting for a present from both you and your guest.

![Indoor Wedding Gift Card Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HW7vQWB23do9IdthbhVJa/039578bb7d7d460a05bb433657cfd51f/Indoor_Wedding_Gift_Card_Table.jpg) Photo by [Kristen Hope Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/kristen-hope-photography)

### 8. Do I need to buy a gift for every wedding event that I’m invited to?

Yes. However, we know it can cause anxiety over how much to spend on a wedding gift. Buying this many gifts can be tough. If you are invited to the [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-hosts-an-engagement-party), shower, and wedding, we suggest planning ahead and setting a [budget for gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/do-i-have-to-buy-a-wedding-shower-gift-and-a-wedding-gift) in advance. To make things easier on your wallet, follow the 20-20-60 rule, which dictates that you spread out your spending like so:

- 20% on the engagement gift
- 20% on the bridal shower
- 60% on the wedding

Breaking down the expenses and knowing how much to give as a wedding gift percentage-wise can be a big help. 

### 9. Should I ship my wedding gift or bring it with me?

Follow these rules to determine if you should physically bring a gift with you to any wedding-related festivities:

- If you attend a shower, engagement party, or purchase a gift that isn’t on the registry, take the wrapped gift along with you to the event.
- If you bought a gift on a registry or are giving cash/check, gifts should be mailed to the couple before the big day.

__Zola perk:__ Couples with a [Zola registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) have the option to ship your gift whenever is convenient for them. Whether that’s before the wedding, after they return from the honeymoon, or months later. Spreading out the gifts can alleviate some of the cost of how much to spend on a wedding gift.

### 10. How late can I give a wedding gift?

Speaking of the timeline, some say you have up to a year to purchase a wedding gift. However, the best practice is always to buy and send gifts before the wedding day or within 3 months of the nuptials. Any longer, and you’re likely to forget. 

Plus, it’s more convenient for the couple to manage receiving gifts (and writing thank you notes) sooner rather than later. When wondering how much do you give for a wedding gift, waiting until after the big day can help. 

![Card Table at Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4QEWoeiNaWA9Yp1ATKoewy/481be8bf09176e4d5b0466f36dffa01f/Card_Table_at_Wedding.jpg) Photo by [Lexi Wyatt Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/lexi-wyatt-photography)

## Wedding gift amount FAQs <a id="place"> </a>
### What can I do in place of a gift on the big day?

If finances are truly a hardship, don’t skip the special day due to gift-giving. The couple invited you and wants you to be a part and not stress over how much money to give at a wedding. That being said, if you can’t budget for a gift, it’s time to get creative! 

If you know the couple well, think about any services you could offer to help them out. Here are a few examples (hint: these also make fun [last-minute wedding gift ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/21-last-minute-wedding-gifts)):

- __Have a beautiful garden?__ Gift the couple a monthly arrangement of fresh-cut flowers from your own garden during the peak season.
- __Are you handy?__ Offer to help the couple get their new home ready. Hang photos, help paint rooms, install sound systems, and change light fixtures. Whatever is within your skill set works and will help them save instead of hiring someone.
- __Love animals?__ If the couple has pets, offer pet-sitting services during their honeymoon or annual family vacation. Go the extra mile and spend extra time with their feathered, fur, or fish babies while they’re out of town.

### Is it ever appropriate to ask the couple how much to spend on a wedding gift?

Unless you’re especially close to the couple—say, a sibling or BFF—avoid this question and take cues in other ways. Look at their registry and see what they have listed. Also, follow the general rules given above. The couple has so many things to plan for their big day, and they shouldn’t be asked what amount to spend on them. 

### So, how much should I spend on a wedding gift?
Ultimately, how much to give for a wedding gift is up to you—and how well you know the couple. Typically something in the $100-$200 range is appropriate (per person). If that's a hardship, consider whether the couple would rather have you there to celebrate and the amount of money isn't a factor. 

Whether you’re invited to everything from the engagement party and bach parties to simply attending the wedding, knowing how much to spend on a wedding gift can prove daunting. 

Rest assured that the couple wants you there to celebrate. Although you should give them a gift, it’s not their focus, so give graciously and with joy. Find out more about registries or find a couple’s wish list in a snap on [Zola’s wedding registry section](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry).


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A Guide to Bridal Showers

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Dos and Don'ts for Wedding Guests

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Wedding Guest Attire: A Guide to Every Dress Code

What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Guest 

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Wedding planning has a way of making even the simplest things seem complicated. Take [plus-one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) etiquette, for example. Whether you’re the couple on the inviting end or on the receiving end of an invitation, it can be tricky to know what’s considered appropriate when it comes to plus-ones. For that reason, we’ve compiled our best tips and etiquette for both engaged couples and guests regarding plus-ones. If you aren’t sure of the standard protocol, read on.

## Plus-One Etiquette for the Couple
While there aren’t any hard and fast plus-one rules, wedding plus-one etiquette can ensure that everything runs smoothly for you and your guest. Keep some best practices in mind, such as:

### Who should get a plus-one?
While compiling your guest list, you might begin to go back-and-forth on who should get a plus one. Deciding on your own can be a daunting task. To ease any stress and resolve confusion, familiarize yourself with who traditionally is allowed a plus-one at a wedding.

- Wedding guests who are __married, engaged, and living together__ traditionally receive a plus-one. That being said, “living together” is interchangeable for those in serious and long-term relationships. 

- __Members of the wedding party__ should receive a plus-one. Allowing your bridesmaids and groomsmen to bring their significant others is a show of appreciation for their commitment and support throughout your engagement and wedding.

- That being said, couples may be willing to extend a plus-one to guests in __specific situations__. For example, if only a few single people are invited and would greatly benefit from having a date at their side. Or, your best friend is traveling across the country to attend and doesn’t know anyone outside of the couple.

### Who shouldn’t get a plus-one.
Though plus-ones can be a comfort to guests and gesture of appreciation, not everyone can or should have one. Additional guests mean additional costs (more on that below) and, really, not every guest needs one. Below are individuals you shouldn’t feel pressured to allow an additional guest on your big day.

- __Single guests who are casually dating.__ Traditional etiquette also says that, if someone hasn’t been in a relationship for over a year, allowing them to bring their partner isn’t a priority. That being said, consider special circumstances the ones mentioned above, here. If you have the budget to extend an invite to your close friend’s significant other of ten months, consider doing so. Use your best discretion.

- __Single people who will know other guests.__ Siblings, cousins, close friends, and others who aren’t in a serious relationship, but will know a decent amount of other guests, don’t need a plus-one. Because they’re close to or familiar with other attendees, they’re sure to be comfortable and have a good time.

- __Coworkers.__ This is often the case, because, if one coworker is allowed to bring a guests, all of them should be able to. This can quickly drive up costs and your guest count. That being said, if you’re close with your boss and invite them, it’s good etiquette to offer them a plus-one.

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*Photo Credit* // Chris Koeppen Photography

### How can a plus-one affect the cost of the wedding?
One of the more meticulous aspects of wedding planning is deciding on and sticking to a wedding budget. And, simply put, the number of guests in attendance can drastically effect your bottom line. That’s because, most often, venues and other vendors (notably, caterers and bartenders) will charge you per-person. A plus-one means another favor, plate of food, several drinks, and a literal seat at the table, adding to your set-up, catering, and bar expenses, at least. This makes offering someone a plus-one incredibly generous, since you’ll be footing the bill for their attendance.

## Tips for making a plus-one invitation list
Putting together your [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations-with-no-plus-one) and deciding on invited guest can be quite the task, in and of itself. Add the prospect of plus-ones and it’s easy to become overwhelmed. To avoid much of the stress and ensure you’re following good etiquette, consider these tips.

- __Know (and use) every plus-one’s name.__ If you know the specific guest someone is going to bring, look up or confirm the spelling of their name (as well as their title, if applicable). This way, it’ll be spelled and they’ll be addressed correctly on any save the dates, invitations, and seating signage or escort cards. Plus, it looks much more formal than “guest.”

- __Include their name on the RSVP response card.__ Again, if a specific individual is expected to be an additional guest, provide their name on the RSVP cards (or in your online RSVP system). This will prevent guests from extended the invitation to someone else or trying to bring multiple people.

- __Know and stick to your guest list limit.__ Whether your venue or budget only allows for a certain amount of people, be aware of or figure that number out and stick to it. Be realistic, even if it means not giving out many plus-ones—or any at all. Better to be safe than have to retract anyone’s plus-one due to inviting too many people.

## Plus-One Etiquette for Guests
Guests, too, should be respectful of the engaged couple and aware of proper plus-one etiquette, such as:

### If your invitation doesn’t list a plus-one, you can’t bring a guest.

This may seem obvious, but many guests have been tempted or even gone through with [asking the couple if they can still bring a plus-one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/is-it-ever-ok-to-ask-for-a-1-to-a-wedding). While some cases may be for good reason, most often this can be stressful and awkward for both you and the engaged couple. Simply put, if your invitation only lists your name, you’re being invited alone. You can’t bring an added guest—and shouldn’t push for one, either. Don’t try to RSVP with a plus-one and definitely don’t show up with one on the day of.

### Bring a date, unless a friend is okayed.
Typically speaking, a plus-one is a formal date. Having one doesn’t often mean that you can bring anyone of your choosing. If you were given a plus-one, but don’t have a date to bring, don’t assume it’s okay to substitute with a friend. Of course, you can always reach out to the couple and ask if doing so is alright. Sometimes, they won’t mind. Others, however, will find it rude. If you feel strange asking, err on the side of caution and attend alone.

### If you do get a plus-one, RSVP with care.
RSVPing seems simple enough, but has its own set of etiquette when it comes to plus-ones. If you were generously given a plus one, keep the following in mind when it comes to sending in your RSVP.

- If your guest was named on your invitation, __don’t substitute them with someone else__. They are your plus-one and aren’t exchangeable. If they can’t attend, RSVP for yourself alone.

- If you were given a non-specific plus-one, __use their name when submitting your RSVP__, whether that’s online or via RSVP card. It’s only polite to let the couple know ahead of time who you plan on bringing.

- Don’t RSVP with a plus-one unless __you’re certain they can and will attend__. If you or they aren’t sure, play it save and RSVP for only yourself.

- Don’t RSVP with a plus-one under the assumption that you’ll find someone. The couple of hosts of the wedding pay for each individual that’s said to be coming to the wedding. If you RSVP with a plus-one and end up not bringing someone, the money that went towards their plate is wasted.

### Give a gift as a couple.
Generally, wedding gifts are given as part of a unit, whether that unit is a family of four or a couple. In other words, no, your plus-one doesn’t have to purchase his or her own gift. It’s perfectly acceptable to purchase one gift from the two of you.

It’s also acceptable for your date to contribute to the gift in some way. However, like most wedding guidelines, this isn’t a hard and fast rule. It depends on how close your date is to the happy couple.

If your cousin is getting married, and your date has literally never met him, consider picking up the full cost of the gift yourself. If your date has met the bride here and there, he or she may offer to contribute or split the cost with you in some way. Ultimately, if your date is a near stranger to the couple getting married, you may want to just plan on taking care of the gift yourself. Since your date is coming as your guest, it’s a thoughtful gesture.

![INLINE EicharPhotography 1080x720 Monica&Emir](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ql2boFrsVdzStUhfzhgxr/86b81fd5fbb25a1343fb14f66b71d637/INLINE_EicharPhotography_1080x720_Monica_Emir.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Eichar Photography

### Give a gift that reflects that you have a guest.
Generally, yes. However, you’re not obligated to spend a certain amount of money on the gift, and you’re definitely not required to spend enough to “[cover your plate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift).” (This is the wedding etiquette myth that won’t die!)

A good rule of thumb is to double whatever you were planning on spending if you’re bringing a date. For example, if you’re comfortable spending $75 when you fly solo, plan on spending around $150 if you’re inviting a plus-one.

Think about your budget and what you can reasonably spend, but don’t sweat the dollar signs too much. The most important thing to remember is that you’re giving a gift because you love the couple.

### Have your plus-one sign the card if...
There are a couple of instances when your date should always sign the card, including when:

- __He or she is your long-term partner__—and you both know the couple. Perhaps you’re not married, but you’ve dated or lived together for several years. This one’s a no-brainer. Both your names should be on the card, even if one or both of the couple is more “your friend” (or family) than your partner’s.

- __You’ve been dating for at least a year__—and your partner has met the couple at least a handful of times. Maybe your plus-one doesn’t know your childhood bestie or sorority sister or cousin as well as you do, but if the two of you have been together seriously for at least a year and the soon-to-be-married couple has met your partner at least three times, put his or her name down.

- __You’re bringing a family member who knows the couple well__. For example, you’re bringing your mom or sister as your date to your old neighbor’s nuptials.

### Don’t have your plus-one sign the card if...
Likewise, there are a few instances in which your date doesn’t need to sign the card, including when:

- __Your relationship is brand new__—or you’ve only been on a few dates together before the wedding

- __He or she has never met the soon-to-be-married couple__

- __You’re bringing a friend who doesn’t know the couple__

What if your relationship to your plus-one doesn’t fit neatly into one of the above categories? First of all, don’t fret. Feel free to use your best judgment: If your plus-one and the couple are complete strangers who couldn’t pick each other out in a crowd, you can leave his or her name off. If you think it might hurt your plus-one’s feelings if he or she is excluded from the card? Go ahead and sign for the both of you. Chances are, the married couple won’t be offended by your plus-one’s good wishes. In fact, they’ll probably appreciate them!

At the end of the day, don’t let traditional etiquette stress you out too much. If you’re the engaged couple, make the decisions you think are best for your wedding day (including your space and budget). If you’re the guest, do your best to abide by etiquette and the couple’s wishes. If there’s any confusion, don’t hesitate to start a well-intentioned conversation.


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Wedding Plus-One Etiquette You Need to Know

It’s always exciting to get invited to a wedding. Someone you love is getting married and they want you there to celebrate. If you’re particularly close with the couple, you may get a few more invitations along the way to various pre-wedding events, including the wedding shower. You’re probably prepared to buy a wedding gift off the couple’s registry, but what about a [wedding shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers)? You might be wondering if you even need to buy both. Gift etiquette isn’t always straightforward. Let’s break it down.

## Do I need to buy a gift for the shower and the wedding?
__In short: Yes.__ We definitely recommend purchasing a gift for both the wedding and the wedding shower. That’s the simplest way to layout the basic gift etiquette. However, there are a few stipulations such as price, size, and more that come with that advice.

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*Photo Credit* // Star Noir Photography

### Wedding Shower Gifts vs. Wedding Gifts 
Not all gifts are created equal—or at least they don’t have to present as if they are. Yes, you should purchase both a wedding gift and a wedding shower gift, but they don’t have to be of equal value. In fact, you can (and should) feel free to spend less on a shower gift than you do on a wedding present.

Traditional wedding etiquette says that your wedding gift should [cover the cost of your meal and drinks](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift) at the wedding—which can fall somewhere between $50 and $200. It’s a big range, but all weddings are different so you’ll know best where your gift should fit into that. Typically, you’ll select something from the couple’s registry anyway, which makes the whole wedding gift situation pretty straightforward.

As far as a wedding shower gift goes, the same rules do not apply. Giving a gift in the $25-$75 price range is completely acceptable. If it’s your best friend since childhood’s shower and you want to spoil her/him, by all means, go for it. Just know that you don’t have to.

### Should I buy the wedding shower gifts and wedding gifts off the registry?
Simply put: You should buy your wedding gift off the [couple’s wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). These are the gifts they specifically chose because they want or need them. So, definitely choose from there for the wedding gift. 

Additionally, you can buy the wedding shower gift from that same registry. And why wouldn’t you? Here’s a [selection of gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/essentials-to-put-on-your-registry) that you know the couple will be happy to receive. If you can find something in your budget, it’s a win-win.  

If you’re particularly close with the host or couple (or you can’t find anything on the registry within your budget), it’s OK to stray from the registry. Your wedding shower gift can be a great opportunity to give something a little more sentimental and personal. Is the bride a bit of a product junkie? Get her a monogrammed makeup bag to hold her wedding day makeup. Does the couple love to try new wines? Try a wine subscription box. Is a dog or cat the center of their lives? Gift a custom pet portrait. 

The point is if you decide to shop for your own wedding shower gift, make sure it’s something he or she will love.

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*Photo Credit* // Procopio Photography

### Should I show up with my gifts or send them directly? 
The etiquette fun continues! When it comes to delivery, wedding shower gifts and wedding gifts also have a different set of rules.

- __For wedding gifts__, it probably makes more sense to send your gift directly to the couple via their registry. There are a few reasons for this. First, the couple has a lot going on. Tracking and transporting their gifts isn’t a task you necessarily want to contribute to. Also, couples with Zola wedding registries can actually choose when their wedding gifts are shipped to them. This control allows couples the freedom to tackle their wedding gifts (and thank you notes!) when they’re ready. 

- __For a wedding shower__, it’s up to you! Typically, these showers have gift-opening moments so, if you’d prefer to be involved in that, definitely show up gift in hand.

Of course, there are exceptions. If the shower is taking place in a city where the host or couple doesn’t currently live (a hometown, for example), he or she may ask that any shower gifts be sent to a certain address to avoid traveling with them. If the couple is hosting a super intimate wedding, you may, in that case, prefer to show up with your physical gift instead of sending it directly. 

You’ll know what’s best for each individual situation. Generally, though, plan to arrive at the wedding shower with your gift and plan to send your wedding gift in the mail.

The bottom line: Get both gifts. You don’t need to break the bank in order to give something the couple will truly appreciate. 

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Whether you're looking for advice on wedding registry basics, unique gift ideas for a newly-engaged couple, wondering how much to spend on a gift, or bridesmaid and groomsmen gift ideas we've got you covered. Get all your wedding registry and wedding gift questions answered!

What is a wedding registry? How do they work? What should you put on your registry? We guide you through getting your wedding registry set up, go over can't miss registry essentials, and give unique and practical tips to creating the best wedding gift registry.

__TLDR:__
- Beyond wondering what to put on a wedding registry if you already live together, you may be curious about IF you should even do one. Zola experts say yes!
- Guests will still want to buy you gifts, and you can also register for items for your home that suit both of your tastes.
- Items from [experiences and gift cards](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/local-experiences?tags=LOC_NATIONAL) to photo albums and cash funds are great ideas.

## Now, let's chat about what to put on your registry if you're already living together
Older generations stocked their hope chests with items ready for their wedding day, after which partners would move in together and begin their new life. However, today, families look different. Couples live together, have [second marriages](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-non-traditional-second-wedding-ideas), and even blend families, which is all ok! If you find yourself in a situation where you are already living together, you might be wondering if a wedding registry is appropriate. To which, we here at Zola say—absolutely! 

Many couples live together for years before tying the knot. This means many of you already have tons of dishes, several sets of bedding, all the kitchen appliances you need, and rooms full of lovely décor. But if from where you sit (in your fully stocked home) you think you don’t need a [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), think again.

![Happy couple](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7gTzB6vyLwODv314XmpqLJ/2a9f21aa5d5daea1e3acf125bec4d800/pexels-anna-pou-9451221.jpg)

## 5 Types of registry gifts for couples who already live together
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When it comes to building a wedding registry for couples that already live together, there are four types of gifts you should focus on: 
1. Everyday-item upgrades
2. Memorable pieces to collect 
3. Unique experiences and gift cards
4. Cash funds for future expenses
5. Charitable donations

Stay tuned for Zola's best ideas in each of the above categories.

## What to put on a wedding registry if you already live together
Based on the five registry gift categories above, here are some of our top suggestions for what couples should put on their wedding registry if they already live together:

### Everyday-item upgrades
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#### 1. Le Creuset cookware
Even if you have everyday pots and pans, you should register for a few pieces of [Le Creuset](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/le-creuset?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) cast iron cookware. These items are simple, beautiful, high-quality, and will last you a lifetime. Upgrade by registering for a classic Dutch oven or a few baking dishes and donate any old cookware that’s scratched or stained. 

__Why our couples love Le Creuset:__ The pots and pans (and many other items) produced by Le Creuset last a lifetime. It's truly a one and done purchase.

#### 2. Prep bowls
Start off your life as newlyweds by decluttering your home: throw out all of those mismatched plastic bowls you have lying around and register for [Duralex’s Lys Nesting Prep/Mixing Bowls](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/duralex_lysprep_10pc?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777). Whether you’re making a salad, beating eggs, or need something to hold a dipping sauce, these are versatile and classic.

__Why our couples love glass prep bowls:__ Not only are these bowls perfect for measuring out ingredients in addition to mixing. In a pinch, they are also ideal for serving. Chips and salsa, anyone?

#### 3. Fancy wine glasses
Think practical. Wine glasses are something you probably use often, and you can never have enough of these for when you host parties. Get beautiful white, red, and champagne glasses that all match with [Schott Zwiesel’s Forte Collection](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/schott-zwiesel-forte-glassware-collection).

__Why our couples love glass prep bowls:__ Whether a casual wine drinker or a connoisseur, these glasses are a hit. They're reinforced at both ends of the stem and rim to ensure that they endure—just like your love.

#### 4. Chef-worthy pans
If you cook at home regularly, do yourself a favor and upgrade your cooking experience with a set of premium pots and pans. This [Nouvelle Copper 10-Piece Cookware Set from Anolon](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/anolon_nouvelle_10piece_cookwareset?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) not only looks attractive, but cooks foods quickly and evenly thanks to its stainless steel and copper construction.

__Why our couples love copper pots and pans:__ The outside of this cookware has a brushed finish. Although scratches are inevitable, the finish does a great job at hiding them. 

#### 5. Linen sheets
How many hours of your life do you spend in your bed? We aren’t going to do the math, but we know it’s a lot. Improve your sleeping environment with a light and airy [Linen 4-Piece Sheet Set from Parachute](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/parachute_linensheetset_bundle_white), which is made from 100% Portuguese linen that will only improve with time.

__Why our couples love linen sheets:__ Couples sleep at different temperatures, but airy, natural fabric sheets have a cozy, cooling effect. Perfect for newlyweds!

![Le Creuset Wedding Registry Items](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5lGk29HlJ01xz79kq3oxQL/832d111d8c3e927e47428b4b62e8bcae/Le_Creuset_Wedding_Registry_Items.jpg)

### Memorable pieces to collect
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#### 1. Classic china
Registering for china is a classic wedding tradition. You might have cups and plates in your home, but owning a set of beautiful, special occasion china from your wedding is something you will cherish forever. We love [Wedgwood’s Arris 5-Piece Place Setting](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/wedgwood_arris_5pc_placesetting?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777).  These plates and bowls are detailed and ornate as well as clean and timeless, making them a perfect addition to your registry. 

__Why our couples love classic china:__ Entertaining is making a big comeback, which many don't already have a set. A wedding registry is the perfect opportunity to stock up on beautiful pieces.

#### 2. Custom wedding photo albums
Your gorgeous new wedding photos deserve a home as beautiful and enduring as they are. Register for your own [Zola wedding album](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/shop) with customizable options from thick, luxe paper to beautiful foils, linens, leathers, and more. And we can't forget this [Float Frame](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/artifactuprising_float_frame?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) for displaying one of your favorite shots from the day. 

__Why our couples love surrounding themselves with photos:__ From a coffee table wedding album to a favorite photo displayed in a frame, what's not to love? Zola's couples love putting their big day on display.

#### 3. KitchenAid stand mixer
One of the most popular wedding gifts on Zola for good reason, the KitchenAid stand mixer has stood the test of time as a high-end appliance that looks gorgeous on your countertop and takes care of all your baking needs, forever. Go big with any of our [KitchenAid Stand Mixers](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=kitchenaid%20stand%20mixer).

__Why our couples love their stand mixers:__ From daily meals to entertaining at the holidays, nothing gets the job done in a pinch like a KitchenAid. Plus, they're a registry staple!

#### 4. Cut crystal vase
A timeless piece of crystal, especially made by renowned brand Waterford, is a gift you’ll use and treasure forever (and maybe even pass on to future generations). Start your crystal collection off with the [Waterford Lismore Bud Vase](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/waterford_lismore_vase_7), which is the elegant, year-round solution for a simple handful of blooms.

__Why our couples love crystal vases:__ Newlyweds love romance, which is often shown in flowers. Plus, fresh blooms create a sense of life and freshness, just like a new marriage will.

#### 5. Artwork
Begin your art collection as a married couple with a print from famous [New York photographer](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search/wedding-photographers/new-york-ny) Gray Malin. Register for a [Gray Malin art gift card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/graymalin_giftcard_100?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) to use online at the artist’s website, where you can choose something that speaks to you as a couple, and will always remind you of your newlywed days. 

__Why our couples love artwork:__ Zola's couples enjoy infusing unique touches into their wedding days and their lives—even on their walls. Skipping the big box store and having a striking photo on the wall can make a statement.

![Zola Wedding Photo Album](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7tMcOMRcXmzqVoVoK1gWVr/9afbdb83a3233a38ebfae45b98640a03/Zola_Wedding_Photo_Album.jpg)

### Experiences and gift card ideas 
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#### 1. Exercise membership
Need motivation to get in shape before the big day (no pressure from us!)? Try a 12-month [running club membership](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_twelve_month_virtual_running_club_membership) from Virgin. Feel camaraderie and have the power to keep going by joining a group. Having accountability is a big motivator for many. 

__Why our couples love exercising:__ The couple that plays together, stays together. So, working out is a great way for Zola's newlyweds to connect and work towards a common goal.

#### 2. Travel gift cards
Jet off to exotic destinations thanks to your wedding guests, who can buy you gift cards to major airlines like Southwest or [Delta](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/delta-air-lines?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) in specific cash increments from $100 up to $500. Travel by sea more your thing? Zola’s got gift cards to [Royal Caribbean](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/royal-caribbean?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), [Celebrity](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/celebrity-cruises?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), and [Carnival](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/carnival?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) cruise lines as well.

__Why our couples love travel cards:__ Honeymoon fund, anyone? Travel gift cards are a fabulous way to help pay off a big trip or have extra fun while you're there.

#### 3. Airbnb gift cards
You’ll need a comfy home base once you arrive at your destination. Register for [Airbnb gift cards](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/airbnb?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) (again in specific cash increments) to enjoy a home away from home for your far or near adventures. Or register for gift cards to [Hotels.com](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/hotels-com?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) or [Mr & Mrs Smith](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/mr-mrs-smith?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) if rental homes aren’t your style. 

__Why our couples love a gift card from Airbnb:__ Airbnb offers unique stays, which make weekend getaways and honeymoons a truly memorable time. Plus a regular stay can turn into a splurge with a gift card.

#### 4. Winc monthly wine club
You’re going to need something to pour into all of those new wine glasses. Register for a 1-, 3-, or 6-month subscription to [Winc’s monthly wine club](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/clubw_monthly_wineclub?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), where you’ll be able to handpick bottles of superb vino from top winemakers to be sent directly to your door. 

__Why our couples love Winc:__ It's hard to look forward to getting mail anymore as all that seems to arrive are bills and sales flyers. When wine arrives, it can change around an entire day. 

![Mr and Mrs Smith Gift Card Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1oI5fGykE8C8jeiNOHWV1m/86396fced92c116fe049c1ecbb6dfe86/Mr_and_Mrs_Smith_Gift_Card_Wedding_Registry.jpg)

### Cash funds
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Whether it’s for a general honeymoon fund, specific honeymoon upgrades like a top-end resort or surfing lessons, or any other big-ticket expenses you want to start saving for now, register for [cash funds](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) on Zola. 

We’ve come up with tons of cash fund ideas—from a home renovation fund to a puppy fund to a fund for ballet tickets—or you can customize your own. Add specific cash increments or allow guests to contribute whatever they wish towards your total goal (you still get to keep however much you’re gifted, even if you don’t hit the total).  

__Why our couples love cash funds:__ Save up for the fun stuff with a cash fund. Folks can give a particular amount that suits their needs, which makes Zola couples feel at ease by putting less pressure on their guests.

### Charitable donations
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For the well-established couple who would rather give back to their communities and their world, there’s nothing classier than asking your guests to make charitable donations to your favorite non-profits and chosen causes in lieu of actual gifts. 

We’ve made it easy at Zola to register for donations to [GlobalGiving](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/globalgiving?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) and [Charitable Choice](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/charitychoice?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), which will direct your guests’ cash gifts towards charities working for an end to world hunger, disease prevention, disaster recovery, and those that help children, education, the environment, human rights, and many other causes.

__Why our couples love charitable donations:__ Some couples are minimalists or truly have everything. Zola's couples who aren't in need of anything love choosing a cause for folks to give a feel-good donation instead of just collecting more stuff in their homes.

## Why cohabitating couples still need a wedding registry
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### 1. To create your "together" home
This is your chance to build the home of your dreams together, filled with things that bring you joy—not just the random assortment of stuff you’ve combined from past living quarters. Is your cookware a hodgepodge of scratched pans you used in college? Is your couch a relic from your SO’s first apartment (that’s seen it’s fair share of house parties)? 

Your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-tips) is the perfect opportunity to upgrade old, worn, or not particularly special objects with items you two can pick out together—items that match your lifestyle, your interests, and your tastes as a couple. 

### 2. Because guests want to buy you gifts
Your guests will want to buy you gifts to celebrate your big day no matter what, so why not give them a little guidance to ensure you wind up with gifts you actually want? 

There’s nothing sweeter than thinking of a favorite loved one when you use his or her [wedding gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift) on a regular basis. Allowing your friends and family to gift you special keepsakes (or luxe upgrades) means you’ll be surrounded by reminders of love and support in your newlywed home. 

### 3. To register for your future
[Wedding registries](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eloping-wedding-registry) have evolved beyond standard gifts. If you feel as though you already have all the necessities you and your partner could possibly want, register for intangibles to help set up your married life. 

At Zola, couples can register for cool experiences (like cooking classes), gift cards for airlines and hotels for use on your honeymoon or other future travel, and cash funds for major expenses like a home down payment or a new car.

## Ready to register?
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Of course, Zola's expertise lies in wedding registries, so if you haven't taken the plunge yet, we encourage you to do so. Not only will your guests know what to give you, but you can receive everything from small kitchen appliances to the fun stuff (like travel cards!) as wedding gifts. Click below to get started today.


Tips for Creating a Wedding Registry

Your Wedding Registry Timeline

How to Create Your Wedding Website: 10 Simple Steps 

We’re not in the business of pretending that gifts aren’t one of the best parts of weddings. And, while we love traditional gifts and registry staples like [kitchen appliances](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and [crystal barware](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds), there’s no denying the appeal of cold hard cash. It may sound a bit unrefined but you wouldn’t be the first couple to make money a major part of their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). 

In fact, gifting money in lieu of gifts for weddings isn't a new concept. It's common at Indian, Italian, Jewish, Muslim, and Chinese weddings. However, the cash registry trend is still technically newer (but seriously gaining popularity) in America. It started with honeymoon funds and has since grown to accommodate all of a new couple’s wants and needs—*literally*. Onboard? Here's why you should have a [wedding cash fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)—and how to use it. 

## How to Use Your Wedding Cash Fund

### Honeymoon Expenses

As we said, this concept really picked up steam thanks to the honeymoon fund. This can cover everything from your airfare and your lodging to your meals and excursions. Break these funds down into a few different categories to make it easy for guests to contribute to your specific needs. It’s even easier if you have an idea of the activities you and your spouse want to do during your honeymoon. 

__Honeymoon Cash fund ideas: __
1. “Honeymoon Round Trip Airfare”
2. “Day Trip to Amsterdam for Two”
3. “Chef-Hosted Sushi Dinner for Two”
4. “Snorkeling Lessons for Two”

### [New Home Fund](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) or Home Renovations 

Your guests will be happy to help pay for an eventual new home or help make your current home one that you love. Plus, many of them already probably know how expensive home care can be. 

__New Home Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Kitchen Remodel Expenses”
2. “Upgrade to Hardwood Floors”
3. “New Kitchen Appliances” 
4. “New Entertainment System”
5. “New Washer and Dryer”
6. “New Window Replacements”
7. “Monthly Landscaping Costs”

### New Car Fund

If you and your partner already know that buying a new family car is part of your [long-term planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding-on-a-budget), ask for a cushion to get you started on saving.

### New Pet Fund

Whether you want a puppy, kitten, or something more exotic, pets don’t come—or stay—cheap. 

__New Pet Cash fund ideas: __
1. “New Puppy Fund”
2. “Veterinary Expenses”
3. “Year Supply of Cat Food”
4. “Dog Treats Monthly Subscription Box”

### Hobbies and Culture

You may have a hobby that you already love to do together as a couple or you may be looking to try something new. Use your cash funds to help support the cost of your new ventures or your old favorites. 

__Hobby and Cultural Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Cooking Classes for Two”
2. “Weekly Dance Lessons”
3. “New Camping Gear”
4. “Monthly Yoga Membership Fees”
5. “Museum Membership”

### Romantic Ventures

The love doesn’t stop once the wedding is over. Ask for cash to keep your weeks full of events to spend quality time together. 

__Romantic Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Date Night Fund”
2. “Wine Tasting for Two”
3. “Concert Tickets for Two”
4. “MLB Season Tickets”
5. “Monthly Couples Massage”
6. "Broadway Tickets for Two"

### Subscription Services

Make cash funds to cover all those monthly fees for anything from hobbies to streaming services. 

__Subscription Services Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Beer of the Month Club”
2. “Book of the Month Club”
3. “Netflix Subscription”
4. "Monthly Snack Box"

### Collections

Build upon established collections or finally become the collector of your dreams with a cash fund dedicated to your favorite things to save. 

__Collection Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Wine Collection”
2. “Art Collection”
3. “First Edition Book Collection”

### Pre-Wedding Appointments

Yes, you can even ask for money to cover any beauty or grooming appointments ahead of your wedding. Use these funds as bonding and relaxation time with your soon-to-be-spouse. 

__Pre-wedding Appointment Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Wedding Mani & Pedi”
2. “Couples Facial”
3. “Couples Acupuncture”
4. “Wedding Hot Shave”
5. “Private Trainer Appointments”

### Wedding Vendor Fee

This one may feel a little less couth than other expenses, but anyone who’s thrown a wedding knows just how expensive they can become. If you feel comfortable, ask your guests to help you cover any of your wedding expenses or services. 

__Wedding Vendor Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Wedding Photographer”
2. “Wedding Venue Fund”
3. “New Custom Tuxedo”
4. “Dream Wedding Heels”
5. “Custom Wedding Centerpieces”

### Charity

Using your wedding registry cash fund as a way to give back to those in need is a popular and wonderful route to take. You can collect money to donate to a particular charity (or charities) of your choice. Your guests will be more than happy to know their money is going to support the causes dear to you. 

__Charity Cash fund ideas:__
1. “ASPCA Donation”
2. “Support for NAACP Fund”
3. “GLAAD Fund”
4. “United Way Donation”

### Investing

Your cash funds don’t need to be attached to physical gifts or experiences—you can also direct your money to future financial goals. Use your cash funds to help set you and your partner up for long-term success. 

__Investment Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Our First Joint Bank Account”
2. “[Our First Joint Investment Account](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget)”
3. “Refinancing Our Student Loans”

The point is that you can *literally* use your cash funds however you and your partner decide. It’s essentially fundraising but for your life—accept those donations! Zola makes it easy to customize your cash funds just about any way you want. Don’t feel weird about requesting money. Weddings, experiences, and life are all expensive. Your guests will be happy to support your new life together however they can.

### Why should I have a wedding cash fund?
Wedding cash funds are a great option for anyone but they’re especially beneficial for couples in the following situations:

- You and your fiancee [already live together](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-create-a-registry-if-you-already-live-together) and have most of the home and decor items you need or want.
- You live in a small space—with no plans to expand soon—and simply don’t have the room for a lot of physical gifts.
- You have an ambitious business plan, project, or new hobby that you want to invest in.
- You want to make a large impact by donating funds to a charity of your choice.
- You simply want to raise money for your honeymoon or new life together.

### I still feel strange asking for money as a wedding gift.
That’s super normal. The cash fund wedding gift trend is gaining in popularity, but it’s still a relatively new concept, especially for older wedding guests. That said, there’s no shame in the cash registry game—you should feel good asking for the gifts that work best for your lifestyle. If you’re still feeling a little off about it, here are some cash fund etiquette tips.

- __Make cash an option, not a mandatory gift.__ And by that we mean, pair your cash fund with a traditional wedding registry. Create a standard registry filled with more traditional home, decor, and travel items—even if it’s just a few things. Then, add a few cash fund options to round it out. __With Zola, you can easily blend your physical gifts and your cash fund gifts into one easy-to-use registry.__ 
- __Consider all budget sizes.__ One of the best things about traditional registries is that they typically include large- and small-ticket items. This is ideal because it allows guests the freedom to really give what they can. So, when you’re creating your wedding cash fund, be cognizant of this. Incorporate both expensive items and experiences (honeymoon airfare) and items that fall in line with standard registry gift prices (cooking class). 
- __Create fixed amounts for your cash funds.__ An easy way to account for the above is to divide your cash funds into set amounts that multiple guests can purchase. __With Zola, you can easily divide up a higher-end gift to create a handful of smaller more affordable gifts.__ For example, if you have a cash fund for a new puppy estimated at around $500, you can ask for five fixed amounts of $100 instead of the lump sum. This makes your cash fund registry more [accessible for all of your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/everything-you-need-to-know-about-group-gifting).
- __Tell your guests upfront.__ Be sure to include links to your honeymoon fund or other wedding cash funds on your wedding website and consider shouting it out on your wedding invitations too (the same way you might mention a standard registry). On your wedding website, you can include a few sentences about why you chose a cash registry that may help wedding guests better understand your thinking. For example, you want to raise money for an emergency fund, you have educational or personal loans to pay off, or you just want to prioritize a dream honeymoon.

### OK, I’m in. How should I use my cash gift?
The beauty of cash funds is that they’re yours to do with whatever you please. In theory, you could just make one large fund without any decided upon purpose. However, your wedding guests probably prefer to have a tangible idea of where their money is going (again, cash funds are still a newer concept for many). So, it’s nice to give your monetary gifts some direction. Here are just some wedding fund ideas on how to use your cash gifts.