Abbey Catering & Events


About Abbey Catering & Events

Abbey Catering & Events

Making San Diego Events Deliciously Easy

Abbey Catering has been simplifying events and delivering heritage hospitality in San Diego since 2000. We provide complete, all-inclusive packages that make planning weddings, private parties, and corporate events truly stress-free. Our customizable packages come with everything from abundant menus and professional bartending to décor, entertainment, and on-the-day coordination. Choose from different tiers to meet your needs and budget, then personalize with your choice of appetizers, entrees, and details. Contact Abbey Catering today to discover why we're one of San Diego's most trusted catering companies.

Our customizable all-inclusive packages and event coordination make planning events truly stress-free. We handle the details from start to finish. Our staff provides an abundant, welcoming experience where celebrations feel meaningful and joyful. Our experience hosting events at San Diego's premier venues has allowed us to establish trusted partnerships. With a range of packages and add-ons, we offer menus and events tailored to each client's individual style, needs and budget. Our seasoned team of experienced professionals handle even the most complex events with expertise and grace. We deliver excellence through decades of know-how.


Sample catered weddings

Surrounded by live greenery from top to bottom and the open air makes this venue a dreamscape for weddings. We loved their black-tie aesthetic and their menu was full of sophisticated yet approachable food, such as our beef wellingtons and seared ahi tuna on wonton. PHOTO CREDIT: BE Studios, @bestudios_sd

Guest Count

140

Total Catering Cost

$21,000

Menu Highlights

  • Seated meal
  • Passed appetizers
  • Wedding cake service
  • Four Tray Passed Appetizers, Served Salad Course, and Served Dual Entrée Dinner Course.

Services Included

  • Clean Up / Trash Removal
  • Chef(s)
  • Service Captain(s)
  • Bartender(s)
  • Service Staff
  • Setup / Breakdown
  • Rentals
Nikki & Kevin got married at the gorgeous SD Botanical Garden Conservatory. Their black-tie event was full of martinis, delicious food, & good times.
Abbey's custom made champagne tree makes for an immediate conversation piece. Suspends up to 88 glasses in it's branches.
Full bar in action, making a Manhattan Martini
Post ceremony dip and kiss!

Services

Services

  • Bartenders
  • Cleanup and breakdown
  • Consultations and tastings - complimentary
  • Consultations and tastings - for a fee
  • Delivery and setup
  • Event planner
  • Rental coordination - directly invoice couple
  • Rental coordination - does not invoice couple
  • Serving staff

Cuisines

  • African
  • American
  • BBQ
  • Cajun
  • Chinese
  • Eastern European
  • Farm-to-table
  • French
  • Fusion
  • Greek
  • Hawaiian
  • Indian
  • Italian
  • Japanese
  • Korean
  • Latin American
  • Mexican
  • Middle Eastern
  • Seafood
  • Southern
  • Southwestern
  • Spanish
  • Thai

Dietary accommodations

  • Dairy-free
  • Gluten-free
  • Halal
  • Kosher
  • Nut-free
  • Organic
  • Vegan
  • Vegetarian

Meal types

  • Breakfast/brunch
  • Buffet
  • Dessert service
  • Family-style meal
  • Food stations
  • Passed appetizers
  • Seated meal
  • Stationary appetizers
  • Wedding cake service

Beverage services

  • Bartending
  • Beverage servingware rentals
  • Mixers/non-alcoholic options
  • Provides liquor license

Drink types

  • Beer
  • Coffee service
  • Liquor
  • Mobile bar
  • Non-alcoholic
  • Signature cocktails
  • Wine

Reviews

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  • Best day of our lives!

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    Kelly D.12:10 am

    Words truly cannot express how happy we were with Abbey Catering for both our wedding coordination and catering. From the very beginning, Will Konecki guided us through the overwhelming process of selecting a caterer/coordinator with patience, kindness, and so much support. Once we signed our contract, Petr Trebin became our main point of contact, and he was absolutely incredible—always quick to respond, proactive, and reassuring every step of the way. Our wedding day (8/31/25) was nothing short of perfect, and I still can’t believe how flawlessly everything came together. The Abbey team worked seamlessly behind the scenes, and we received endless compliments from our guests about how delicious the food was and how smoothly the day flowed. On top of it all, Petr went above and beyond by taking candid photos throughout the day and surprising us with 60 images the very next morning. Seeing those photos before even getting a sneak peek from our professional photographers (Deborah Shields and Miranda Smith, who were also wonderful to work with) was such a special and unexpected gift. Abbey’s professionalism, attention to detail, and genuine care made our day unforgettable. Their five-star reputation is 100% deserved, and we could not recommend them more highly. If you are lucky enough to have Abbey Catering as part of your wedding, you will be in the very best hands.

  • Best day of my life!

    Verified review
    Angie R.Aug 25

    I don't even know where to begin. From the beginning, Troy Sand was extremely responsive and helpful with all my questions regarding catering and how to help narrow down my decision on who to book. The bundle package made it a no brainer, however I felt reassured the whole way. Throughout the planning process, Abbey took care of us. Petr Trebin was assigned as our coordinator, and I cannot say enough how much peace of mind this provided me. He paid attention to every little detail, offered his opinions/recommendations when I felt uncertain, answered questions I didn't even know that I had - and this was just the planning process. On the actual wedding day (I got married at Scripps Seaside Forum), he went above and beyond. And I know many people use this phrase, but I need to say Petr actually did. There were several last minute change ups that he had to navigate (for example, I forgot to let him know we would be doing the Hora since it was a half Jewish wedding. We didn't have the chairs to do this, so he told me he would see what he would do. Well, he found the chairs, he spoke with our DJ (Dax) and we did the Hora and it was perfect.), and my rowdy wedding party did a great job with the ceremony all because of Petr's helpful instruction. He made the entire day and evening run SO smoothly and honestly it was the best day of my life. I recommend every bride to at least strongly consider Abbey Catering for their wedding needs - and do the bundle package! The vendors I worked with were all amazing but I will do separate reviews for them as well. Before I forget, the food was also incredible. All of my guests were raving about how good the food was throughout the weekend, so 10/10 there as well. Service was also perfect, everyone was on point and everyone had a smile! I wish I remembered the names of everyone who worked my wedding, because every single person on staff helped make the day a giant success. One last HUGE thank you Petr, Troy, and the entire Abbey crew for making my day perfect!

    Response from vendorSep 4, 2025
    Angie--Thank you so much for these incredibly kind words! We are so grateful to know that working with us provided you with the peace of mind and confidence that everything for your day would be handled with the highest level of care & attention to detail. We're thrilled that the bundle package was the perfect fit for you and made planning easier on you! And, hearing how all of your guests raved about our food and service is music to our ears! Our chefs extend their gratitude and it's always so awesome to hear that everyone enjoyed the menu. Thank you for recommending us, and congratulations to you and Joey! With Love, Abbey Catering.
  • Great Experience!

    Verified review
    Jayce G.Aug 23

    Abbey Catering & Events did a fantastic job throughout our entire wedding journey, including during the event when unforeseen circumstances arose. Petr in particular was such an amazing planner and we would thoroughly recommend using specifically him again. He is responsive, and singlehandedly managed to make the event happen as my wife had always dreamed of (her words not mine).

    Response from vendorSep 4, 2025
    Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful experience, Jayce! Once again, congratulations to you and Yeonji! We love hearing how our coordinators (shout out to Petr!) were able to make your wedding journey so special, even when unexpected situations arise--Tide Pens & Club Soda work wonders! We're thrilled to have been a part of your big day and sincerely appreciate your recommendation. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness! Love, Abbey Catering & Team
  • Our Dream Wedding Day

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    Ashley M.Jul 30, 2025

    We are still on cloud nine after our wedding at the San Diego Botanic Garden in Encinitas, and we owe so much of that joy to Abbey Catering & Event Design. They were simply phenomenal from day one! When we first inquired, Will was great at explaining all of the packages they provide and answering any questions we had. After we signed, we were assigned to Petr Trebin our amazing wedding coordinator!! Petr truly brought our vision to life and we are SO thankful for all of the work he did to make it our dream wedding! Petr made the time leading up to our wedding day and the actual day so seamless! He managed the timeline, coordinated with all of the vendors, and beautifully set up our welcome table and reception tables! He also made sure to have apps and drinks set aside for us after the ceremony to enjoy! He truly thinks of everything and is the best! The food was absolutely incredible and a major highlight for both us and our guests. We chose the dual entrée of panko-herb crusted chicken and NY striploin, which were both flavorful and beautifully plated. During cocktail hour, guests raved about the tray-passed appetizers and loved our open bar! David the event captain, and their team made it a great experience for our guests. We had our cake and cupcakes included in the package through Sugar Bear Provisions and our guests were raving about how delicious this was! The florals that were included in the package from Emerald & Ivy were breathtaking from the ceremony arch to the bouquet and reception tables! They were also flexible with us providing our own vases since we had specific vases we wanted to use, which tied perfectly with the gold flatware and charger plates we upgraded to! Our DJ Brian who was included in the package through the wedding entertainment collective was awesome! He kept the energy high, and the music was a perfect blend of our favorite styles and totally reflected our personalities as a couple! We also opted to include photography & videography in our package and both Deb and Tareq were fabulous to work with! We love being able to look back on our video and photos that takes us right back to our day. Every vendor included in the their all-inclusive package through The Abbey was top-tier, and we are so grateful to the entire team for making our wedding day feel effortless, beautiful, and completely us! If you're planning a wedding in San Diego, we highly recommend them! They truly are wonderful to work with!

    Response from vendorAug 1, 2025
    Wow, it sounds like your wedding was an absolute dream! We're so happy to hear that everything from the food to the florals and entertainment exceeded your expectations. It's fantastic that Will, Petr, and the team were able to bring your vision to life and make your day seamless and special. Thank you for sharing your experience and for recommending us to others planning their big day. Wishing you all the best in your new journey together!

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